In mIRC you have the option to make play a sound when someone types your nickname.
Here is how: Go to mIRC FILE OPTIONS IRC HIGHLIGHT enable highlighting ADD
In the ADD window: in the first line put: $me
Then chose COLOR, PLAY SOUND (select your sound ) , enable FLASH MESSAGE, PLAY FLASH SOUND (chose how many times ) , MATCH ON NICKNAME AND MESSAGE
You can set mIRC also to perfom commands ON CONNECT
Go to FILE IRC PERFORM
Enable performing and you can put for example :
/msg
Q@CServe.quakenet.org AUTH yourusername yourpass
/join #nk.clan
/msg L op #nk.clan yourusername